Hatsuyume

あけましておめでとうございます。🎍 Happy New Year.

from Wikipedia:
Hatsuyume (初夢) is the Japanese word for the first dream had in the new year. Traditionally, the contents of the dream would foretell the luck of the dreamer in the ensuing year.”

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I just woke up and I immediately recalled the last part of the dreams I had during the night. By request, I was signing published books – not ones I had written but ones I had edited professionally (as in, as my job at a publishing company). The overall feeling of the dreams was accomplishment and satisfaction. If that’s an indicator of how 2016 is going to go, I’m totally down with that.

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more info on hatsuyume here

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NYC Christmas Aftermath

I’m writing this almost a year and a half after the fact… I was just doing some clean-up on my blog to try and clear some space (unsuccessfully – ended up using more :/ ) and realized I said I was going to post about how things went and never did. Maybe I can knock something out today~

I’m not going to post a bunch of random trip pictures, even though I could because they turned out GREAT, because I’ve already posted everything on Facebook in 5 albums (shared with Hubby). If we are friends, you can check them out. If not, you can wait longer, because I still have plans to share some on Flickr when I finally get around to posting a selected bunch of various trips there. (What’s on my Flickr account now is basically just garbage.)

What I do want to do here is compare the list in my last post to what actually happened and maybe a few anecdotes to go along with it. I should probably list them in some sort of chronological order of what we did, but I’m just going to go point for point on the previous list. It makes it more complicated for me right now but easier for anyone who reads this and keeps the continuity.

1. a carriage ride in Central Park – We did that closer to the end of the trip. It was interesting, and because we didn’t have much time in NY, it was a great way to see some of the park in a short amount of time. They had two routes to choose from – a long and a short one – but Hubby asked if we could do the short one with a little detour a bit further up to go past Strawberry Fields. Our driver was pretty obliging. It would have been more romantic/Christmasy if it had been snowing, but there was nothing we could do about the unseasonal warmth. (A short video clip on Instagram here.)

2. Rockefeller tree – This was one of the things we did on the first day. I knew it was going to be crowded, but… Dude! It’s so crowded. And, if it didn’t have all the iconic traditions around it, it wouldn’t be that big of a draw (for me). It’s just a giant tree. Yeah, it’s pretty and it makes a good backdrop for selfies or whatever, but now that I’ve seen it, I never need to see it again.

3. skating in Central Park – We never did any skating. I realized as I was there that I didn’t necessarily want to skate personally. I just wanted to be in the atmosphere. Something about outdoor rinks stirs something in my heart. To be honest, it didn’t have to be Wollman Rink. On our first day, we strolled through the market at Bryant Park and spent some time watching the skaters at their rink. It was lovely! Exactly what I had wanted to experience. We did pass by the rink in Central Park when we were there but it was so crowded, we didn’t bother to try to get close.

Video clips I posted on Instagram comparing Central Park, Bryant Park and Rockefeller Center.

4. stay at a Park-side hotel – Of course, before ever being there in person and only seeing the area on maps, I couldn’t gauge well the actual size of where we were going to be spending our time. The only parts we were really interested in for this particular trip were what falls between the Empire State building and south end of Central Park, Park Ave to the edge of Hell’s Kitchen. Basically, Times Square and the surrounding blocks. It’s not actually that large of an area so as long as our hotel was close to that, that worked for us. In my biggest dreams, we would have stayed at the Plaza or Ritz Carlton right on the edge of the park, but, c’mon. $$$
We ended up staying at the Hilton Times Square. Hubby was in charge of booking and I think he got a deal on it. It was absolutely fine with me.

5. Christmas Eve viewing of The Nutcracker – I love The Nutcracker. I first saw a live performance of it in Pittsburgh when I was very little, maybe 6 or so. (I saw it at least one other time when I was still young, maybe in Toronto.) Then there was the TV version they used to play every year along with Rudolph and Frosty. I had a record of highlights that I used to dance around the living room too. There was an animated movie that came out when I was a teenager that I loved. And I also loved the segments in the original Fantasia movie, which had nothing to do with the story but had all my favourite musical pieces. To me, The Nutcracker is an inseparable part of Christmas. Part of “Christmas in the City” needs to involve getting dressed up and enjoying the story and music of The Nutcracker in a live setting. I’d go every year if I could.

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We got this horribly awkward photo as a souvenir. No one looks comfortable. Much like a usual Christmas.

6. romantic fancy dinner – To fully live up to my dreams, we would have to have a lot more disposable income. But Hubby also knows me and knows that sometimes my dreams are incongruous with my personality and wouldn’t fit my comfort level. I think he did such a great job finding a place that was “fancy” but in our price range AND not a place that I would feel like a poser. I want to be fancy, but alas, I am not.
We had two lovely dinners – the first night at Carmine’s and the third night at Gallagher’s.

7. coffee shop breakfast – Poor Hubby. I had so many ideas about what I wanted to do but could assist him very little with verbal specifics. This wasn’t something he could source out ahead of time since I only had a vague impression of what I was searching for. It turns out that I don’t think what I wanted even exists, at least not in that neighbourhood. So this isn’t an item we can really cross off the list but we had a good breakfast in a restaurant our first day and several more coffee-related outings during the trip.
(This is one of those weird, inexplicable things. I get fuzzy pictures in my head of things I want to experience in the real world and share with others, rather than just enjoy in my own head. Sometimes they are concrete things from TV and movies, as with most of the items on this list, but other times they are just feelings that I want to recreate in a visual/tactile way. The funny thing about this one is that I don’t even drink coffee. I just see it on my favourite shows and movies and want to be a part of it.)

8. Radio City Christmas Spectacular – Spectacular, indeed! The show was great, as was the pretzel and ginger slushie I ate from concession during the show.

I have a few video clips from Instagram – here, here and here.

9. Macy’s Santa – Not at all what we were expecting. Kind of a letdown but a memorable experience anyway. There was a LOT of waiting and it didn’t have that magical quality I was looking for. I was hoping for more out of the line set up – more interesting things to look at, more interactivity… IDK. And once you got to see Santa, it was so rushed and actually a little creepy/uncomfortable since we’re grown ups… Could have been better, but could have been worse.

10. Union Market – We didn’t go to all the way there since it was far, but Bryant Park fulfilled everything I had been looking for. This was actually probably my favourite aspect of the entire trip. And the cider was delicious!

11. 5th Ave. window shopping – It probably would have been a better experience if it had looked like Christmas. A few stores were decorated with window displays and decorations, some of them quite impressive, but I didn’t get that feeling of the cheery hustle and bustle of casually strolling amongst the rushed holiday shoppers. Still a thousand times better than what downtown Toronto has to offer.

12. Serendipity – The only time we had to squeeze this into our packed schedule, they were closed. We still walked all the way over there but we’ll have to save going in for a treat until the next time we visit NYC.

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13. the holiday sandwich from Earl’s – OMG. Just as delicious as I remembered from when I ate one in Vegas a few years ago. We don’t have this chain in Canada. As far as I know, there aren’t even many locations in the US either. And the holiday sandwich is a limited-time only thing so if you ever get the chance, and you love holiday dinner as much as I do, definitely try it! Yum yum yum. (It’s basically turkey with mashed potatoes, stuffing, cranberry sauce and gravy with mayo, made into a sandwich. Might sound kinda gross but it’s awesome.)

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14. Central Park’s Alice – This actually has nothing to do with Christmas. This was the one thing I wanted to do that was only a NYC thing. The Alice statue was an important setting in a great movie, Remember Me, starring my favourite… Yeah, I couldn’t not go.
So, there’s this thing my friends and I do (or, let’s be honest, mostly me and I force my friends to help) called scene framing. I tried to do a few Remember Me scene-framing shots. It was difficult with the amount of people but I managed a few solo pictures.
There was also a little old man playing the er hu a few feet away that I was enchanted by.

15. Grand Central laser lights – Didn’t go. This wasn’t a priority – not something I was familiar with beforehand, just something that kept coming up on lists of Christmasy things to do when I was doing research. Totally okay missing it.

16. Empire State Building – Due to the weather, we skipped this too. It was so foggy most of the time. The rest, it was too warm and would have been too crowded for my liking. It was enough for me that I got it in the background of some pictures and it’s something we’ll do next time. Less of a Christmas thing, more of a general NYC thing.

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K+J’s Magical Romantic Christmas in New York

I was going to do a daily post while we are on our Christmas vacation, but I don’t have my computer with me and posting from my iPad or phone is pretty much impossible. Instead, I will put up all my pictures in albums on Facebook, so if we are friends, go look there.

I will however share my carefully crafted plan. Neither Hubby nor I have ever been to NYC before. We aren’t planning to do all the things you are “supposed” to do though – only Christmas-related things. I got all my inspiration from the movies I grew up loving. Home Alone 2, Miracle on 34th Street, When Harry Met Sally, Serendipity, more recently Elf, etc. I did basic Google research too. Then, as I like to do, I made a dedicated Pinterest board with photographic inspiration.

Here’s the final list of Things We Want to Do:

K+J’s Magical Romantic Christmas in New York Checklist

1. horse drawn carriage ride through Central Park

2. see tree at Rockefeller Center

3. skating in Central Park’s Wollman Rink

4. stay at a hotel near the park

5. The Nutcracker on Christmas Eve

6. romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant

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7. breakfast at a coffee shop

8. Radio City Christmas Spectacular

9. see Santa at Macy’s

10. shopping (and drinking cider) at the Union Market

11. Window shopping on Fifth Avenue/Times Square

12. Serendipity

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13. Earl of Sandwich

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14. Alice statue

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15. Grand Central Terminal Laser Light Show

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16. Empire state building

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Daily Itinerary:
Tuesday, December 22
-shopping/walking around 5th Ave and Times Square
-check out Grand Central Terminal
-check into hotel – Hilton Times Square
-shopping at Union Square
-dinner at Carmine’s (10pm reservation)

Wednesday, December 23 – Christmas Eve Eve
-Macy’s Santaland
-breakfast at a coffee shopping/street watching
-Empire State Building
-lunch at Earl of Sandwich
-Radio City Christmas Spectacular – 10pm

Thursday, December 24 – Christmas Eve
-The Nutcracker 2pm
-dinner at Gallaghers Steakhouse (6:45pm reservation)
-Rockefeller center

Friday, December 25 – Christmas Day
-carriage ride in Central Park
-skating at Wollman’s Rink
-dinner at Buca di Beppo (5pm reservation)

Saturday, December 26 – Boxing Day
-check out
-Serendipity
-Alice in Wonderland Sculpture

Once all my shit is organized when I get home, I’ll update with how it all panned out. Merry Christmas.

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Hush

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I love words. I really do. I love language and linguistics and syntax and diction. English is great because there are so many different words to say just what you mean. You can sift through dozens of words to find just the right one to express precisely what you want to say. Connotation is everything.

But there are times – usually when I’m in “a mood” – where I just want everyone and everything to shut up. Other people AND myself. When I need to stay off all forms of social media because it just pisses me off. When everything anyone has to say just sounds stupid, inane, unintelligent, pointless…  This is when I turn to music.

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Obviously, the majority of my collection of music has words. Half of that in English. Sometimes listening to music in another language you don’t understand is nice because you can just focus on the melody and harmonies and have an easier time ignoring the lyrics. But there are times when my annoyance is stretched to it’s limit and I need humans in general – voices – to just STFU. That’s when I go classical.

I am currently sitting here at my kitchen table/work space, jamming out to my favourite classic hits, ignoring the rest of humanity and shutting out the rest of the world, and immersing myself in sound. I love the intricacies of these pieces. The simple melodies embellished and augmented by the addition of multiple complimentary bits. I love the layers. It’s thrilling.

And, it makes me feel better about people and the world. Human beings, at their greatest talent and genius, came up with this stuff. Amazing.

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Obsession

I have an obsessive personality. Like, hardcore. I fixate on things to the point where whatever it is completely absorbs me and actually disrupts my life. You would think because of that, that I would be into all kinds of different fandoms. But over the course of my life, there have only been a few things I’ve latched on to. (Maybe because it would be too exhausting?)

Yay. Fun list time.

Little House on the Prairie (books, not TV show)

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Disney

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Full House

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Friends (the TV show, not real life people)

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Weezer

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Twilight

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Supernatural

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Japan

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Hmm. I thought there would be more…

Another thing is that my obsessions are usually relatively short-lived. Once I love something (to that degree), I will love it forever – but the ‘living it’ usually lasts a few years at most. This is a new revelation to me.

The one exception is Japan. The overtaking of my life has varied in degrees over the years, when sometimes I’m eating/sleeping/breathing all things Japanese and others, it’s more on the back burner but the interest is ever-present.

I don’t currently believe that anything lasts forever and I don’t propose that this WILL be lifelong (it COULD be…), but ever since the interest was piqued, it has continued to hold.

Another thing I’ve noted lately is that my obsessions are growing in strength as I get older. I am way more into Twilight than I ever was into the Little House thing. That one was minor in comparison, whereas my Twi-love was all consuming. That could have something to do with the fact that I was only 10 at the time. And 13-ish during the Full House years. Also, I’m sure not having money to invest in these things during the younger years held me back a lot too… And the Internet was not yet a thing so immersing yourself wasn’t as easy as breathing like it is now.  Whatever. The exact reason doesn’t matter to me much right now. It was just something I noted.

This all makes me wonder… What’s next?

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My Spirit Home

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One of my favourite TV shows is a documentary show from NHK (Japan’s major international broadcast station) called Japanology (started out as Begin Japanology – now called Japanology Plus). Each week, a new topic dealing with some aspect of Japanese culture is explored. They have a series of episodes called Japanophiles where they interview foreigners who have made Japan their home and who have become experts in some area or another, such as a certain style of pottery or a specific musical instrument, etc. They end each one of those shows by asking the interviewee “What does Japan mean to you?”

I’ve often thought about how I would answer that question. I think I’ve finally come up with a somewhat coherent answer. Japan is the external embodiment of my soul.

As soon as I started to see things and hear things about Japan – language, culture, art, history, whatever – I was enchanted. Something about it was extremely attractive. But I could never explain why. As I get older and am learning more things about myself, I’m beginning to see things that make sense.

One of the things I love most about Japan is how it’s natural – seemingly ingrained in the communal consciousness – to pay attention to detail, almost to an obsessive degree. If you know me personally, you will immediately see what I appreciate about that.

There is a quote from the movie The Last Samurai (the ONLY movie I can stomach Tom Cruise in) that I love. “From the moment they wake, they devote themselves to the perfection of whatever they pursue.”

This is just one example of how I feel that Japan knows and depicts my soul. Maybe one day, I’ll illustrate some more for you~

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5 Things

There are an abundance of things I absolutely love about Japan (obviously) and also some things I don’t like. Just for fun, here are 5 things from each list, particularly from this last trip…

Things I love about Japan:

toilets – heated seats, multi controls, sound effects, built in butt spray (if you’re into that kind of thing)… Japanese toilets are a technological wonder and the regular toilet at home is the first thing I’m sad about getting back to.

hot vending – during the colder months of the year, vending machines are stocked with heated drinks. We need this everywhere!

no tipping – for anything. Food service, taxis, etc.

umbrella condom – IDK what they are actually called, but stores put these umbrella shaped plastic bags at the doors for you to put on your dripping umbrella when you enter so that water doesn’t get all over the floor. I like to keep them for when we are on the train too so that the wet umbrella doesn’t rub on my clothes.

use of space under train tracks – In Canada (and America), the space under train track overpasses is completely wasted. In Japan, space is limited so restaurants and shops are shoved into those places. (Highway overpasses too.)

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gadoshita dining area under the tracks of Yurakucho Station in Tokyo

Things I’m not a fan of in Japan:

lack of garbage cans – Japanese cities are soooo crowded and yet so clean. There is a societal mentality to respect each other. When people create garbage, they take it away with them to throw out when they do come across a garbage can or get home. I like that way of thinking BUT I would really like to unload more conveniently.

over packaging – I’m just a little bit ecologically conscious and I don’t like to waste. It’s hard enough to get konbini workers to not give you a plastic bag, but the products themselves, especially fruit, come with way too much wrapping. In some instances, like with a peach that needs protecting from bruises or whatever, I can understand. Or when buying omiyage souvenirs to give to people, things need to stay fresh or… be wrapped up all pretty. But for the most part, it’s so wasteful. Mottainai!

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things like bananas come individually wrapped

“Nihongo jouzu!” – It’s almost comical how Japanese people are so modest themselves and yet so complimentary. If you speak even a word of Japanese, they will say this phrase to you, which roughly translated means, “Your Japanese is so good!” I get that they are happy when you make any effort at all to speak their language, probably quite genuinely since they all had to struggle through at least 10 years of English in school and most likely had a difficult time with it. But I think that compliments like that should be spared for when you actually are displaying that you can speak Japanese fluently. And I obviously cannot. On one hand, it’s nice to have that encouragement as if they are saying “Good for you for trying. Keep going.” But it can be frustrating when I’ve only said ‘thank you’ or ‘good afternoon’ and I know I am actually just being an insecure brat for not trying harder. Also, it’s a stock response and most of the time, I don’t think they really mean it.

Um…

So, okay, I can only come up with 3 things I don’t like right now… I’ll add 2 more later when I remember them. I guess that’s a good thing – that I can’t even think of 5 things I dislike, right?

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Twilight Car Bingo

Remember when I made up my Six Degrees of Rob game? That’s not the only Twilight-related game I play by myself when I’m bored. The other one I made up when I was in college and taking the bus back and forth to school everyday and had long spans of time waiting for one to show up and then long rides while actually on board. It’s been a long time since then but I thought I’d share this game anyway. The premise is easy and, like the Rob game, you can tailor it to your own preferences.

So, in the Twilight Saga, many different cars are mentioned. Everyone knows the “shiny silver Volvo” and Bella’s truck. There’s also Alice’s Porsche, Rosalie’s BMW, Emmett’s Jeep, Jacob’s Rabbit, Charlie’s cruiser, etc. The game is literally just to spot these vehicles on the road and award yourself points. The number of points you get is something you can decide for yourself. If you’ve just woken up and are sleepy while awaiting public transit, maybe just one point each. If you’re driving and stuck in traffic (and therefore, hopefully, more alert), you could make point tiers based on popularity on the road. Or perhaps the car’s importance in the books (ie. Edward is obviously the most important and therefore his car is worth more than…. say….. Jacob’s? 😉 )

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You can also decide for yourself how exact the makes/models need to be to count. I’m not very knowledgeable about this kind of thing so, to me, one silver Volvo model looks like the next. I don’t differentiate. For myself, I basically go with the general make and colour. But, if you want to accrue more points, maybe just the brand. (Do you know how often you’ll see a yellow Porsche? Not often, I bet.) It’s also up to you which versions you want to use – book vs. movie. As in, Emmett drives a red Jeep in the book but it’s silver in the movie. Rosalie drives a BMW in the book and a Mercedes in the movie. And of course, there are multiple movie Volvos used, half of them not even silver.

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The other fun thing about this game is that it can be played with other people. Just like the car bingo you played on long family road trips as a kid with your siblings in the back seat to amuse yourself in between inquiries of “are we there yet?”, you take one side of the car and your opponent takes the other. Or play in teams – multiple sets of eyes are better than one.

Come to think of it, why have we never played this on our road trips back and forth to Forks? It’s not like we didn’t have the time. Maybe we just didn’t have the traffic… Not a lot of fancy cars on the scanty roads of Washington…. since, you know, the Cullens don’t take their cars out much…….

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Here are 2 lists for reference to all the automobiles mentioned in the Saga:

Stephenie Meyer’s site

Twilight Saga wiki (more comprehensive)

For the super detail-obsessed, there are a few more vehicles noted in Midnight Sun. I don’t have my copy handy and don’t feel like looking them up for you right now. (Maybe another time, since *I* am one of those people.)  Just be aware that they exist. (Really, it’s only like 2 more random kids’ cars in the school parking lot.)

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Refugees

I keep seeing all these posts on Facebook about how “Christmas is ALSO a story about a middle eastern family seeking refuge”.  Um…. Granted, it’s been a long time since I was regularly acquainted with the Bible, but isn’t it that they had to go to Joseph’s home town so he could pay taxes? Or do they mean, like, refuge from having a baby in the middle of a sand dune? ‘Cause…. I guess…

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Christmas Quiz

My friend posted this “3 things” quiz and like an ass, I commented right away saying I had done it three times already. Without actually reading it first, just how I hate it when other people do. Welp. I lied. The one I’ve done is totally different.  So I decided to do this new-to-me one AND, because I sometimes have a hard time keeping my Christmas spirit up and know others do too, I made up a Christmasy themed one to tack on as well. That should make up for my error, right?

Three names I go by:
1 kmah
2 McGinty
3 Jamal

Three places I lived:
1 Mississauga
2 Brandon
3 Aliquippa

Three places I have worked:
1 Levi’s
2 Money Mart
3 Blockbuster

Three things I love to watch:
1 Supernatural
2 Shibuya Crossing
3 the rain

Three places I have been:
1 Hong Kong
2 Tokyo
3 Forks

Three things I love to eat:
1 mashed potatoes
2 no bake cheesecake
3 cake pops

Three people I consider friends:
1 Geena
2 Abbygail
3 Jay

Three things I am looking forward to:
1 Phantom of the Opera
2 Christmas in NYC
3 Muse

And here is mine:
(If you wanna do it, just remember, all answers to do with THIS holiday.)

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3 favourite holiday treats:
1 – SIL’s gingerbread cookies
2 – my whipped shortbread cookies
3 – candy canes

3 best gifts you’ve received:
1 – crayons – The first year Hubby and I were dating, we each bought each other the same box and relabelled one in particular in the same manner.
2- Mukluks – not actually for Christmas, but received last year just before the holiday season and epitomized to me the true spirit of gift giving
3 – a fairytale (literally) …with a matching necklace to go with it

3 favourite decorations:
1 – our cutie tootie matching stockings
(Honestly, I put this in there for other people to answer. I’m getting very Scroogey in my old age and we aren’t even putting up our tree again. We have no lights outside. There are no decorations at all.)

3 things on your wishlist:
1 – SPN seasons
2 – record player
3 – randoseru 🎒
(I didn’t ask for anything really. I already got a lot. Like, a lot a lot.)

3 favourite holiday movies:
1 – Mickey’s Christmas Carol
2 – The Santa Clause
3 – Miracle on 34th Street
(read more)

3 favourite carols:
1 – O Holy Night
2 – Carol of the Bells
3 – It Came Upon a Midnight Clear
(read more)

3 things about the holidays you are most looking forward to:
1 – spending qt with my favourite
2 – going to NYC for the first time ever
3 – The Nutcracker

3 past holiday memories:
1 – “The Shittiest Christmas Ever” – with cousins and grandparents when everyone was… ill
2 – our first Christmas in our house – with Hubby’s parents, SIL and Nephie
3 – Christmas in Edmonton with the family
(a quick explanation: Growing up, it was only my immediate family and, for the most part in my adult life, it’s just ‘us’. My favourite memories are when I am surrounded by a lot of people. Spending Christmas with the whole family has a magical quality to it.)

3 people you want to spend the holidays with:
1 – Hubby
2 – sister
3 – MIL

3 family traditions:
1 – Elf – every year, Hubby has to watch it on Christmas Day, no matter where we are
2 – nuts and bolts (Chex mix) – This can obvious be eaten at anytime but my mom only makes it at Christmastime and Hubby is obsessed with it. She always sends him a tub.
3 – Skype – Since our families live far away, we spend Christmas morning opening gifts with various groups of family via the magic of video chat.

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